Care not this much

Why do you care so much?

Why does he have so much power over you?

Nobody likes people  they have power over.

Just. You don’t need to care so much about this. Loosen your grasp. Go with the flow. You don’t need him. You don’t need anything. You already know that.

Love him, yes. And remember that love is free and freeing. No one is in bondage here.